Hi, I’m Rachelle Booth (She/Her)
Transformational Coach. Astrologer. Cosmic love curator. Conscious Love & Relationship Expert. Intuitive feeler, fluent in the language of the deep Self, emotions, and the stars. Intensely passionate and dynamic liberator of the patterns of half-living for the grand quest of becoming fully alive.
I emblazon heart centered women to deepen their capacities to love, and create the fulfilling, meaningful, and impactful love they dream of, without waiting endlessly for something (or someone else) to change.
Though love is the greatest mystery of all, there’s one thing I know for sure:
The force of Love is the greatest transformative power on earth.
I know because I’ve lived it.
And the good news is: we all have access to it
“As above, so below. As within, as without”.
Yes-even you-can have it. You just have to go within on an inner journey to cultivate it.
But it’s not all flowers, rainbows, and unicorns that society has taught us to believe. In order to have epic love, it takes a lot of heart and courage. The courage to be vulnerable. The courage to face shadows, cultivate authenticity, and reinvent love.
Too often Lovers have outdated expectations of what LOVE should look like
Old models don't align with the new visions of living and loving that we’re looking to create.
Today’s evolutionary lovers are seeking authentic, meaningful, growth oriented relationships that make them better humans.
Trapped in old modes of loving, they may feel stuck in relationships that aren't as passionate, connective, and satisfying as they desire.
You’re probably:
feeling as though your needs aren't being met in this current paradigm
feeling unsure of how to create alignment with your revolutionary visions of love & relationship
feeling like you're at a crossroads (you love your partner and don’t want to leave, but you can’t live with the way things are).
finding yourself all up in your partner’s business expecting change, and noticing partner resistance
carrying the weight of unrealized dreams and actualized potential
When a Lover’s needs go unmet, what I end up seeing is……
power struggles, loops of disconnection, feelings of anxiousness, resentment and distrust, lack of intimacy, and unconscious patterns of communication. The longer this goes on without new solutions, feelings of complacency surface and the options on the menu look like what I call:
The sh*t sandwich:
“I either have to live with the way things are and keep efforting”
or
“I can leave the relationship” (only to meet the same dynamic in the next relationship)
Neither of these options are supportive of the evolutionary lover that you are. And it doesn't have to be this way!
There are more options on the menu.
You’re at that very scary relationship intersection of:
“I really want this to work” AND “Is this ever going to work?”
Maybe you have:
Devoured spiritual and relationship advice books
Unraveled some relationship knots in couples therapy
Meditated, done affirmations and thought positively one “om” at a time
Taken many online Love Courses
Felt like you have done ALL the things
You’ve put your heart and soul into this relationship and you have the best of intentions. Nothing seems to work. And you’re exhausted and depleted from all of your efforting.
Wear New Lenses
The secret thing, the other option on the menu, that will make this all work, is shifting your Love and relationship paradigms. Paradigms are perspectives; they are the ways we look at things.
In order to align with new modern visions and actualize your dream of epic love, you’ve got to wear new lenses. Only new perspectives and out of the box thinking will lead to new solutions to committed partnership.
What you think about, you bring about. What gets inwardly transformed, gets outwardly shapeshifted.
It’s why I use the Epic Love Method …see here
What are the steps to shifting love and relationship paradigms that form the blueprints of relationship success?
Go on an inward journey of self-exploration and self-love (aka love revolution) to discover your True Self
Discover the fears, limiting beliefs, and obstructive patterns/paradigms that block the flow of love. This requires radical honesty, and the courage to be vulnerable and open- hearted, at the risk of failure, being hurt, or rejected. (Pro tip: It’s very useful to have a mentor/guide in this process. Why? Because you can’t see what you’re protecting yourself against).
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. You’ll be consistently challenging your status quo, and going beyond your current form. One can learn to be confident in the face of uncertainty and change.
Release old outdated patterns and rewire new and empowering ones.
Take action and integrate these new forms of being.
I’m opening doors to women who….
-want to rewire and reprogram outdated, unfulfilling ways of loving for more aligned visions of love
-need someone to push them out of their current comfort zones, beyond the edges of what they hold currently possible
-feel ready to do the inner work of transformation, including facing the shadow with compassion and releasing obstructions, limiting beliefs, and energy blocks in their highest service of love
-believe in the beauty of their own dreams and what is possible for themselves and for the world
-feel ready to stop the endless cycle of unfulfilling relationships, do their own inner work, and empower themselves to be the love they desire.
So if you’re ready to make love epic, sign up to:
My Story of Evolutionary Love…
I’ve always been a dreamer, lover, and romantic with idealized visions of love.
Being an Epic Lover with a profound faith in the transformative power of love for ALL is a gift. Before I could unlock this gift however, I would endure some challenges.
During young adulthood I was susceptible to the generational and cultural models of love and womanhood. I was taught that a loving partnership would meet my needs, fix all my problems, rescue, satisfy and fulfill me of all that I was lacking. I was taught the importance of being beautiful and alluring to attract or keep love, as if somehow love were passive; a thing that happened to me. Or static, as if once you found love, it stayed with you forever.
These conditioned paradigms of love had become the inner framework of my outer-world relationships. It’s almost hard to imagine now, knowing what I’ve since learned. But as with all subconscious patterning, we often don’t even know they’re there, until we do. In my case, they eventually became so painfully obvious that I had to see them.
Intimate connections as the spiritual crucible of soul-level evolution:
In my late 20s, I began a 10 year cycle of troubled and conflictual partnerships characterized by codependent patterns of relating, feelings of inadequacy, and false notions of fulfillment.
These patterns showed up as:
Trying to solve my partner’s problems
Neglecting myself to take care of my partner’s needs
Trying to convince, persuade, or push my partner to change
Feeling frustrated and blaming when my partner didn’t change
Pushing harder (beyond safe limits) when things didn't change
Internalizing the blame (I should’ve done better)
Focusing on what I lacked
Feeling victimized by the whole thing
Losing faith and trust in love, myself, and universal support
I became disillusioned, lost, defeated, exhausted, sick, completely heartbroken, disheartened, and traumatized. It was a cycle of experience, designed (at its highest) to unveil certain myths and untruths that I, and many other women of my generation, had unwittingly adopted around romantic love. These experiences shattered my idealized visions of love, and would eventually catalyze a path of healing and deep transformation around the patterns responsible.
Over time…
Blinded to the patterns…
How could this be? I was raised to believe in feminine power. How could this have happened?
These patterns were subtle, sneaky, and invasive. That’s the thing about unconscious patterning: it remains buried and unseen until it’s illuminated.
What I couldn’t see then, I clearly see now.
These traumatic experiences of love closed me off to true connection and intimacy, until I finally woke up to the truth………..
You don’t need a partner or relationship to complete you
New Perspectives On Love
Light bulb moment! I realized that I could do my own inner work and develop true self expression, authenticity, and satisfaction. I could shed my limitations, embrace the divine potential within my own self, break free from the constraints of the ordinary and venture into the realm of the extraordinary. I could live life in its fullest, most divine form. I could attract a partner who commits equally to authentic, meaningful, and impactful relationship.
So I set out on an evolutionary journey ( that included astrology, belief change-work, and the Feminine Path) to uncover my true self, and to explore new patterns of living, loving and relating that have now become the body of my work for countless women.
What Was Forged:
I discovered who I was authentically, what was in my way,
and the new sacred blueprints that I needed to create the love that I wanted.
Discover your sacred blueprint here:
The challenges and deepest wounds I had around love were the very keys to unlocking my CAPACITY TO LOVE superpower.
But I had to do the work.
From a powerful inner journey of transformation, an elevated version of myself and life were rebirthed…
Re-writing my internal scripts and reclaiming my feminine sovereignty looks like:
Creating a life I’m proud of
Passionate and purposeful work
Confidence, and unconditional love and acceptance
Fulfilling Conscious relationships
Soulful SEX
Wisdom and Intuitive gifts
These inner transformations are the profound catalysts for the Divine Union I co-create now, with my beloved husband.
Together we open up to exciting, brand new worlds of possibility every day. We understand that love is evolutionary and in order for it to grow we must continually do the work of opening our hearts bigger and wider than we ever thought possible, on the tantric path. We are committed to the path of growing together and set intentions and goals around making our love epic . We utilize sex magick to extend the harmonized, bliss-filled, ecstatic moments in our sacred union. At long last, we have the kind of conscious love I’ve always wanted. Love and gratitude fill my heart.
Important Note:
I am an ordinary person having an extraordinary experience of love. It’s not perfect, but it is transformational. It is creative, meaningful, intimate, loving, conscious, and evolutionary. Hence the term, Epic Love.
If I can have it, so can you.
MY mission and purpose is to empower you to have it. To take the new patterns of living and loving from rumor to muscle.
XOXO,
“Knowledge is just a rumor until it lives in the muscle” -Asaro Tribe
One of the most significant steps to this level of success is the integration of what you learn. It isn’t enough to know it in the head. It must be integrated into the body.
As you stretch beyond your comfort zone, fear surfaces naturally and can block action taking. If you don’t have the space and direction to take action and implement what you learn, real breakthroughs can be thwarted.
But as long as you are game, I am committed to your beautiful breakthroughs. I believe in you and have the utmost faith in the transformative power of love. This is what I am specifically trained to do as a transformational coach. And my promise is that I will:
Hold a loving, secure, and empowered space for you to access the courage it takes to face your deepest fears and keep stretching beyond your comfort zone
Help you to eliminate any limiting beliefs, fear blocks, or doubting obstructions to having what you want
Hold you accountable to what you said you wanted, so you can align your actions with your intentions.
I’ve done it successfully in my relationships, so I know you can too.
MY TURN ONS
passion for growth, audacity to dream big, courage to explore the depths of love, commitment to authentic connection, and the desire for impact
TURN OFFS
advocating for limitations, ostrich energy (burying head in the sand), apathy and indifference, closed off hearts, resistance to change
You too? Our synergy will be off the charts!
Heartfelt Rhapsodies